Hi Andrea,
According to the Academie française, sans que doesn't require the ne explétif at all, except for higher register French and then only in a negative context. So I agree with you in this respect. Maybe Aurélie or Cécil can explain further.
Here is the link to the "ruling" of l'Academie française: http://www.academie-francaise.fr/sans-que
Il vient sans qu'on l'ait prié. -- He comes without being asked. (No ne explétif!)
Il ne vient jamais sans qu'on ne l'ait prié. -- He never comes without being asked (Ne explétif is possible but not required.)
Il ne vient jamais sans qu'on l'ait prié. -- He never comes without being asked. (No ne explétif, which is also correct.)
Greetings, -- Chris (not a native speaker).