"Aidée" agreement

Lily, 

The agreement is with the gender of the speaker as the direct object ‘me’ in “m’a vraiment aidée ” precedes the compound verb and the speaker is female.

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 Special cases when the past participle agrees (in number & gender) when used with 'avoir' in the compound past in French (Le Passé Composé)